Navigating digital age as a parent can feel like an uncharted deep-sea expedition |
The video opens with three people in the scene, a little girl, a boy and their mother, the girl is on her tablet while the boy surfs through his smartphone and the mother observes them both, shrugs towards the viewer, perplexed about how to monitor their activity as the boy shows a thumbs up to the screen. |
The shifting tides and evolving technology can make it hard to keep up |
The setting changes completely, taking the girl, the boy and their mother underwater inside a submarine. The submarine has two windows, and through each the children and the mother look, and the submarine is on the vigilance of the waters that are filled with water plants. |
Tools that were developed for parents during the TV era aren’t much help anymore |
The visual from the previous scene is captured inside a TV in this slide. |
A bit like a compass that doesn’t point north |
The TV disappears to the left and a magnetic compass comes into the focus which is unable to point towards North. |
To grasp digital modern parenting, we sought a fresh approach adapted to measuring 21st-century parenting in its diverse forms, since not everyone has the same methods |
Now, a girl with binoculars is observing and searching her surroundings. |
Our research has led us to uncover 6 strategies that today’s parents are adopting to navigate these digital waters |
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She finds it hard to tell if he’s using his laptop for homework or fun, especially since he’s become adept at quickly switching screens when she enters the room |
The camera now focuses inside the submarine, where Tondrai, the boy from the last slide, is sitting on a chair table and surfing on the internet, and his mother, Lulu, is checking on him. A head bubble appears over Tondrai saying “I need another hour on my homework, MUM!” |
Co-use: concerned he was out of touch with his daughter’s online interest, Lizzie’s dad suggested that they embark on a journey of learning together. |
The scene shifts to a sunny morning with bright clouds, and a father and his daughter rowing a boat in the sea. |
Tablet in hand, Lizzie showed Dad her favourite nature shows, where they explored deep-sea wonders, nurturing shared moments of discovery |
Lizzie, girl from the previous scene, is showing her dad nature shows on her tablet, both of them learning and discovering underwater environments together |
Technological Monitoring: worried about the unknown depth her son was delving to online, Priya chose to cast a digital safety net by setting up monitoring software on 13 year old Raj’s phone. |
In the same clear waters with fishes and plants inside, Priya, Raj’s mother is monitoring his online activity aboard a turbo boat. Raj is inside the water wearing safety gears scrolling through his smart mobile phone |
The app relayed weekly logs of the sites he explored, guaranteeing she stayed in the loop and that he charted a safe course. |
A hand is holding and scrolling through a list of social media websites over a smartphone.
We come back inside the ocean waters, where one by one 6 water bubbles pop up with 6 strategies: mediation, technological monitoring, authoritarianism, boundary negotiation, co-use, and monitoring by proxy. |
Mediation: picture 17-year-old Lucy caught in a social media storm and feeling upset, |
Gray-black clouds pour rain over the sea, and a girl named Lucy is caught in that rainy storm on a canoe. |
Seeking refuge she turned to her dad, with a comforting hug and a few kind words he transformed her online mishap into a valuable lesson |
We see that the storm passes and Lucy goes to the shore, On the shore side, there stands a tall coconut tree. There she finds her dad waiting for her with open arms, she hugs him and he calms, and pampers her down. |
Authoritarianism: Meet Anna, the captain of her family ship. Sailing through the digital age with two teenagers on board, she set a firm rule, whenever she called out: dinner’s ready |
The camera moves to a setting of a dining room, where two girls are seated opposite the dining table. The table has three glasses on it. Then enters the girl’s mom wearing a ship captain’s hat and holding a card in her hand, a message appearing above her head that reads “dinner’s ready”. |
The phones had to be stowed away. This was a time for family connection, not digital distraction. |
Now we are sent to a kitchen setting with cupboards, on the left and drawers on the right, which are being used to surrender the girls’ smart phones. |
Boundary Negotiation: Lulu often finds herself at crosscurrents with her 14-year-old son, Tondrai, over his constant online activity |
In this visual, we again find ourselves under water inside a submarine, on the one window is a boy and on the other is his mother. |
Monitoring by proxy: On a family day out, aunt Rosa whispered to Sofie, the mother of 10 year old Mia |
Both parents and their kids, all geared up under water, kids involved in their activities. |
Did you know, Mia’s been sharing tales of a new online game with her cousins? Thought you should know. |
Now the camera pans towards one parent whispering something to another, while the girl is on her phone in the same scene as before. |
As we delved deeper, we discovered that there’s no one size fits all when it comes to digital parenting, and the age of the child and where they live play a significant role |
6 water bubbles appear in the underwater scene, two of them carry map location icons, and the rest contain numbers: 10, 17, 12, 14, all floating in the water. |
As kids grow older, parents deploy these strategies less and less, except boundary negotiations, meaning the technology tension between parents and teens remains steady even as they grow. |
Six clocks with six different strategies written inside the clock reading: Mediation, Boundary negotiation, authoritarianism, co-use technological monitoring, and monitoring by proxy. |
In cities, parents tend to cast their nets wide through monitoring by proxy |
Buildings and houses rise up in a city-like setting, a flag on a flagpole appears displaying “Monitoring by proxy” |
While in suburbs and countryside, mediation takes the helm |
Now, the camera moves to the left of the screen focusing on a more suburban setting, and flag displaying “Mediation” |
To further map unexplored waters we need to set sail on more research voyages to explore how digital parenting might differ in homes with neurodivergent children |
The camera now pans to the right of the screen showing unchartered waters, and Priya rowing the turbo boat. The flag there says: “Digital parenting with neurodivergent children” |
In the digital depths, as with the sea, there are both wonders and risks. But with proper guidance, parents can help children to navigate safely and smartly. |
Now, all the characters that were shown in the submarine are shown at once. The children and mother from the first scene, Lulu and Tondrai and Anna and her daughters. This time there is a shark and an octopus as well in the scene. |
For more information on digital parenting, please visit enurture.org.uk or ruddcentre.com |
The outro scene begins, the shark and the octopus begin to move away and we are introduced to the video credits and partners of enurture, with its website and social media handles. |
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